Author Bullying – A Scary New Trend?
May 1st, 2013 . by Peggy
Are you an author who has been bullied? Write to me in confidence about your experience, via email at peggy@wizardofebooks.com.
I was thrilled when I recently found out that a friend’s daughter had found time to write a long trilogy of fantasy novels. In between raising her four young children, she has written a beautiful series, with all the high drama and symbolism that I think will make her work stand the test of time.
But only yesterday, I received a request from my friend, the author’s mom, to please go like her Facebook page “to make her feel better”. Apparently, she had recently encountered some people who were giving her a really hard time about a variety of things related to her book: her choice to self-publish, criticizing the covers (for which she hired a professional book cover designer), and various other aspects of the book business she has decided to start. We’re not talking about critique of her writing, the sort of constructive help that authors need to improve, but just hard-core bashing.
“Why are you wasting time on this?” *
“Nobody is ever going to buy it.” *
“You’re so full of yourself.” *
It took me many years to distinguish between proper criticism, which builds an author’s skills and confidence, and just plain bullying, which does nothing but tear down the fragile hope of any small business owner. Constructive criticism should leave the artist with a feeling of direction: they now know what to do to make it better. Bullying is just the opposite. You’ll know it by its familiar feeling: the childish playground jabs that come from a place of fear and lack of personal confidence on the part of the deliverer. It turns out that all the grownups that tell you to just ignore that were right – but because that’s almost impossible to do, we all let it get to us on some level or another.
Several times, I’ve witnessed author bullying take place in person, for example, at a recent coffee shop meeting with a client. Our server came by our table to ask if we needed anything else. When we responded with a “No, thank you.” He could be heard sniping to the other server at the counter, “Oh god – another fake author.”
Incidents on Twitter, Facebook, and other social media are more common, possibly because the sniper is somewhat distanced from the artist. Some recent tweets I found included language like this “… more stinking advice from a self-publishing expert…”, “The proliferation of self-publishing has meant a bumper crop of terrible book covers…”, “… yet another writer who couldn’t get an agent and decides to make a bad book at home.”
The worst one I witnessed myself was at a dinner a year or so ago, where the guest speaker was a self-published author of several mystery novels. He had been making the tour of the country for months, promoting the books by doing talks at writer’s groups and libraries, forming relationships with small bookstores across the country, and selling his way through the trip of a lifetime. The talk that night was widely advertised as “mystery author” etc. etc., and even though I knew he was self-pubbed, he was not mentioning that in the marketing. I quickly found out why. After his lovely talk, and the gift of three books for those who could answer his trivia questions, he offered to take questions from the audience. One woman stood up and asked him, “Is it true that you self-published these books yourself, including the cover artwork?” “Why yes, it is!” he proudly answered. The woman stood up, grabbed her sweater off the chair, and as she left the room, could be heard to be grouching, “I came here tonight to hear from a REAL author, not some guy making books in his basement.”
Wow. I looked at her as she passed me on the way to the door, and I lightly asked her, “Where’s YOUR book?” To which some of those around me chuckled. She gave me a nasty look and bolted for the parking lot, without paying for her drinks – at least, as far as I could tell.
I think many authors hear this sort of story regularly, but don’t talk about it, perhaps to avoid giving it any more energy than they have to. However, I believe that bullies need to be confronted with their actions to stop. They need to be told that just like kicking kids on the playground isn’t tolerated, this type of behavior is unprofessional and will not be tolerated in the literary community. You will be branded.
Local Author Joan Burge, (of OfficeDynamics.com) who has self-published over a dozen books, recommends surrounding yourself only with positive people who will help you achieve your goals – not lose faith in them.
She suggests…
“Involve Others. Get others involved in your goal. Share your dream with a friend, family member, peer, or professional associate. Caution: if they are not supportive but instead share their fears and doubts, then limit your conversations with them regarding your goals.
Seek Guidance. Ask others who know about your plan to recommend resources or people contacts. Solicit feedback about your ideas and plans.
Use Mentors. Find people who have done what you want to do, or have what you want to have. Tell them you admire their accomplishments and ask for ideas. Ask them how they overcame barriers. Mentors can help you think out solutions to problems.”
Are you an author who has been bullied? Write to me in confidence about your experience, via email at peggy@wizardofebooks.com.
* These are direct quotes told to me by authors who have personally experienced author bashing.







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